Eliza video 4 : How to be a woman of value

 Simply put, a high-value woman understands her worth and exudes an energy that goes beyond the physical. That energy attracts other people like moths to a flame, but she is careful about who she allows into her life. 

A high-value woman is not just highly sought after by men but is someone who knows her inherent value and can hold her own, regardless of what people say or do to her. That said, she doesn’t just let any man into her world, and doesn’t define herself by her relationships with men (or women).

She may not be the most physically attractive, but she has something more valuable and enduring than that. She embraces her femininity and sexuality and possesses a self-confidence that exudes unwavering self-love and self-esteem. This makes many men want to be in her life and have a relationship with her.

Some commonly asked questions about this subject include:

What is a high value woman?

A high-value woman knows her real value. She is aware she is highly desirable, and so has high standards others need to meet to have an intimate relationship with her. 

One of the most important traits of a highly valued, highly desirable woman is her self-confidence and deep sense of self-worth and self-esteem. She puts up healthy boundaries in her dating life, making sure she is never disrespected in any of her relationships. This self-confidence and self-respect make her attractive to other people - high value men, but other women as well, who aspire to be like her.

How can you tell a high-value woman?

She Knows Her Worth.

 A high-value woman doesn’t equate her worth with her body (the trait of a low value woman), the amount of attention she gets, or sex, nor does she operate from a place of fear or neediness. She doesn’t need a relationship with a man, or anyone else, to get her validation. She also doesn’t let the opinions or remarks of others get in the way of how she lives her life, because she has self-respect. She doesn’t base her self-esteem on what people think of her. She is aware of and grounded in her inherent worth and value and knows this to be true regardless of what happens to her. 

However, she knows this doesn’t give her permission to act too good for others or create a sense of false entitlement. Her strong sense of self-worth is evident in how she walks, talks, dresses, her good posture, and, most importantly, treats herself.

She Loves And Respects Herself. 

A high-value woman feels good in her skin, can spend time in her own company, and is not intimidated by the high standards she has set for herself and others who want a relationship with her. Because of the respect, she has for her own value, she is not afraid to walk away from an intimate relationship with someone who does not love her in the same way she loves herself.

She knows that the level of respect she will get from others is contingent on the respect she gives to herself. For this reason, this person loves and respects herself deeply and will not settle for any less than what she knows she deserves (other high-value people).

She Is Kind And Compassionate. 

One of the traits of a high-value woman is understanding the power of compassion in the world. She displays kindness to everyone she encounters, whether toward a bus driver or her close friends. This is evident in her warmth - she knows that true, lasting beauty comes from how you treat others, and so her beauty radiates from within. 

Because she knows the value and connectedness of all living things, she is present with all and treats those around her with a gentle loving-kindness. She isn’t cold-hearted, stoic, or plays too hard to get another person. She cares about people, and she is not afraid to show it. All her relationships in her life are based in healthy respect for other people, even those of low value.

She Is Committed To Learning And Growth. 

One of the traits of a high-value woman pursues personal growth relentlessly and strives to be the best version of herself every day. She believes in being well-rounded and pursues wholehearted living with a passion, always moving forward. 

She aims to be intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually stable and is not afraid to seek professional help to achieve optimum well-being. She knows that she has a lot to learn and is dedicated to learning through reading books, being updated on current affairs, watching films, listening to music, traveling, and immersing herself in art. She tries to expand her knowledge and learn something every day, knowing that everything and everyone has something to teach her if she remains open and humble.

She Is Self-Aware And Empathic. 

A high-value woman is aware of the effects her thoughts, words, and behaviors have on other people. She understands that it’s not just what you say but how you say it and communicates with others in a tactful and empathetic way. She possesses emotional intelligence and respects her feelings and thoughts without judgment. This enables her to do the same for others. She genuinely desires to communicate effectively with and understand other people, build and encourage others when she senses they need it, accept people as they are without needing or demanding that change.

She Is Grounded In Maturity.

 One of the most important high value woman traits is she doesn’t play games or manipulate others to get what she wants. Waiting for a few days until texting back, pretending to be too busy, or stringing men along for fun are things she considers beneath her own value. These are in fact the traits of a low value woman.

She will not engage in behaviors that don’t align with her values or desires. She knows that she doesn’t have to follow “dating rules” to make herself more attractive or appear more unattainable - she already knows that she is a high quality woman and doesn’t feel the need to prove it. Moreover, a high-value woman will not resort to demands to get someone to stay - she will allow the other person to leave the relationship if they wish to with grace.

She Is Not Afraid To Speak Her Mind.

 A high-value woman knows that she serves no one by not speaking her mind. She is values expressing her thoughts, feelings, and opinions with others, even if she knows that not everyone will like it. She isn’t afraid to ask for what she wants, knowing that her needs are just as important as everybody else’s. Similarly, she isn’t afraid to say no or make clear what her boundaries are. A high-value woman also expresses herself creatively and shares her unique outlook on the world through mediums like dance, poetry, or painting. When she does, it comes from a place of genuineness, authenticity, and vulnerability.

She Is Passionate. 

Another one of the major high value woman traits is living a life that is in alignment with one’s purpose, goals, and values. She doesn’t accept any less and will pursue what she loves with fervor and passion. She lives a life of abundance and does not give up doing what she loves to be with a man. She is not knocked down for long when setbacks and challenges come her way; she uses them as motivation to do and be better. She is a woman who is unapologetically in love with what she does and who she is. She is a woman who takes full responsibility for her happiness and well-being.

She Has Class. 

Classy and sexy are not oxymorons. She knows how to embrace her charm, femininity, and powerful beauty in an authentic way. She doesn’t feel the need to seek attention from others constantly but is comfortable in her beauty and holds herself with grace. She doesn’t feel the need to compete with other women but understands that all women are beautiful in their way and that their beauty does not take away from hers whatsoever. She is committed to empowering others and knows there is no need to compete for love or attention - there is room for everyone at the table.

She Takes Care Of Herself. 

A high-value woman will not only take care of herself emotionally and spiritually but physically, too. She is committed to good health; she nourishes her body with water and food that makes her feel her best, exercises and moves her body daily, and presents herself to the world in a way that makes her feel confident and beautiful. She values her downtime and places high importance on her self-care routine. She understands the importance of living a balanced life, has a healthy respect for her limits, and treats her body lovingly.

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